Bergen County Child Custody Lawyer
Representing Parents and Children in NJ Custody Cases
When you go through a divorce, we know that few things matter more to you than your children's future. So our child custody lawyers serving Bergen County are prepared to walk you through every aspect of child custody clearly and compassionately.
Our team-based approach ensures you'll have a team of family attorneys actively working on your case to provide high-quality service with a personalized touch.
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Types of Custody Plans in New Jersey
The two main types of custody in Bergen County, NJ are:
1. Physical or Residential Custody
- This refers to the parent the child lives with (the Parent of Primary Residence versus a Parent of Alternative Residence).
2. Legal Custody
- This refers to the parent(s) responsible for making all major decisions affecting the child including those related to health, education, safety, and overall welfare. You will have the opportunity to come up with a custody plan with your spouse first.
The following options exist in relation to child custody:
- Sole Custody – One parent makes decisions for the child without the other.
- Joint Legal Custody – Both parents have a say and can participate in decision-making.
- Parent of Primary Residence – The residence where the child primarily resides and spends the most time.
- Parent of Alternative Residence – Residence where the child spends parenting time based on a schedule.
- True Shared Parenting Agreement – Both parents have rights to parenting time with their child.
How do the NJ Family Courts Determine Child Custody?
Suppose the two parties cannot agree upon an arrangement. In that case, the court will be called upon to intervene, usually with the benefit of a forensic custody evaluation prepared by a mental health expert.
Child custody is awarded based on the following factors:
- Needs of the child
- Fitness of the parents
- History of domestic violence
- Parent's employment responsibilities
- The stability of the home environment offered
- Quality and continuity of the child's education
- The geographical proximity of the parent's homes
- Interaction and relationship of the child with its parents and siblings
- Parents' ability to agree, communicate and cooperate in matters relating to the child
- Safety of the child and the protection of either parent from physical abuse by the other parent
- The extent and quality of the time spent with the child before or after the separation
- Preference of the child when of sufficient age and capacity to reason to form an intelligent decision
- Parent's willingness to accept custody and any history of unwillingness to allow parenting time not based on substantiated abuse
Other Factors Considered
Judges may consider the ages and number of children, the location of the child's school, each parent's job situation, and the distance between the parent's homes. In addition, a court may deem a parent unfit if a history of child abuse, drug addiction, or even domestic violence exists. Usually, in these situations, a parent will have restricted or supervised visitation for a while. In extreme cases, the court can terminate parental rights.
How To Modify Child Custody Agreements
It is not uncommon for a custody plan to be modified well after the initial arrangement has been finalized. In addition, whenever a change in circumstance occurs, a modification may be necessary. For example, a custody plan will have to be revisited if one spouse is planning to move outside of the state of New Jersey.
Helpful Tips for Your Child Custody Case
- Consult a child custody attorney near you: Your child custody lawyer is your best asset and can help you strategize to ensure you can get through this as smoothly as possible.
- Consider settling out of court: In many cases, spouses can reach an agreement with their attorneys' help and an unbiased mediator. Your attorney might suggest this option to keep you out of court. Not only does it save you time and money, but it helps you work on your relationship as co-parents.
- Be aware of your behavior: When in the middle of a custody dispute, it is important that you keep your temper in check. This is not always easy when you have a lot of unresolved anger and resentment. Still, it is imperative that you are on your best behavior. Do not send angry texts and emails to your spouse, and do not argue in front of your children.
- Never alienate your children from your ex: Your marriage might be over. Still, your former spouse will always be a parent to your children, so never alienate them from one another. Not only is this harmful to your kids, but it will do you no favors in court.
- Remain engaged in your kids' lives: Regardless of what is going on in your life, it is crucial to show that you can remain engaged with your children and attend all of their important events, whether related to their academic life or health. It helps your case in court and strengthens your bond with them, making it a win-win.
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